Sinclaire wrote:

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Belated doesn't mean forgot.  I thought they celebrated in Germany with a fancy dinner, etc....while castle shopping.  She obviously wanted more.

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But why?  Why would she not be happy to spend time with her husband on their anniversary?  I mean, DAMN!  In retrospect, she got a hell of a lot more than most women do... got to see a foreign country, go out to dinner, look at castles.  Sounds like a fabulous time to me!

Because Damaris, she isn't one of us that's why.

And yes, Patty, it is July 30th.

papers were signed a few weeks ago....they've been shopping since before Christmas I think.  They were there for his birthday in Jan, correct?

Even if they weren't in Germany in July, they were definately in NY for WTC promos and you're saying no shopping was done then?  Please!  She probably made a scene and he had to buy and make the "anniversary" excuse in public. 

-- Edited by Sinclaire at 17:04, 2006-09-04

im sorry to say this but i keep thinking he can also spin the press and his fans to make us think its the women in his life who do him wrong. "He can't exactly tell the media his wife wants more bling, but he can make it look like his fault and take the blame to keep her looking good."  i can't help thinking that the man goes through women like downing booze and its not the womans fault that his marrages crumble.  he was married to Patty for 5years but only lived with her for 9 months.  he was married to Lisa for only 110 days or something like that.  kristinia sounds like shes fed up with him thats what Ella has said kinda and he then marries a teenager.  does any1 else see a pattern here? i dont mean to say I like Sushi but it seems to me that he might be the cause of her becoming a spoiled brat. i feel sorry 4 the women in his life.  he might be a hot looking stud with sad eyes but i swear something is not right in us thinking hes always the she done me wrong guy. im sorry. its just what i think

I've never said he wasn't the screw up with the first 3, or any of his other women, but his current wife is affecting his acting in a bad way.  I don't have any illusions about Nic's emotional capasity.  He fully gets at least 50% of the blame for his failed relationships.

that or get his **** together

I'll gather up a couple of boxes and some packing tape.

Damn... the love is flowing high and free tonight!!  WOO-HOO!!

LOL.

 

No, I understand.  It's discouraging to see someone who was so inspirational and mind-blowing on the big screen reduce himself to a mass-producing actor-for-hire who has lost touch with his soul.  It's almost embarrassing to tell people you're a Nicolas Cage fan because they make such snarky comments about the past few movies he's made, rather than looking at the overall picture.

My understanding from talking to others here who live in L.A. (Ella?  Patty?) is that it's 100% true.

Ava wrote:

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ive got some coupons to a see a shrink clinic he can have

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That's hitting below the belt. I thought I said some pretty cruel things but I think that takes the cake! Sorry 'Ava'. I would never tell him to go see a shrink but he probably already has one because of previous problems with growing up and other things. 

Let's just chalk it up to the fact that he wants to be married to a certain kind of woman but he just hasn't found her yet. Granted he doesn't need to get married to everyone he dates.

u think me saying he could use a shrink tops all the horrible nasties and crap that have been said on this sight especially when it came to his wife a woman - he married?  some of you including you have been almost evil in your hatred of her and for saying all those things. talk about stink!  and another thing whats really below the belt Ella is when someone doesnt have the brains or common decency to not post pixs of mystery women who are in his real life even after being told not to by the girl who shared the pix with you. thats an betrayal fo trust and a huge invasion of his privacy not even just an opinion like i voiced.  like i said before i was sorry but this takes the cake.  can someone remove my membership?  i dont like hanging with hyprocrites. some of you have been nice but wow

AVA, please don't leave the site

Not understanding the big deal with the shrink comment....I've seen one and think it's good for 99% of the population to go to one.  It's an outside person who can see things more clearly, see patterns, and give advice without being tied up with any emotions or prior knowledge.  It's very free-ing (is that a word?) and good for the soul.  Life can be tough and it's good to have an outlet that is not alcohol, drugs, food, or anything that could hurt you.

I'm all for him seeing someone.  He needs an outlet too.