I haven't heard this but I've seen this before my own eyes. We live in the same town. He has not been a happy camper for years.

I wonder if he is the type that stays unhappy because he is trying to punish himself or he doesn't feel he deserves it or something.. I doubt it, but sometimes when people have a lot, they could get those kind of feelings.  If he was so lonely and having a wife fullfills that, you would think that would mean that the wife and him would be great friends and he could have a lot to talk with her about and confide in her and her be his soulmate.  From what I have been reading here, she doesn't seem to be that for him. Thats ashame because he seems so deep and interesting and full of ideas. It would be great for him to have a true soulmate that is somewhat like him, and they can truly understand each other. Not just someone that puts up with things, someone that truly is the other part of him, his personality and soul.  Now of course, I don't know whether she is that or not.. But if he is unhappy as said on this board, then he needs to realize that happiness is not fulfilled by getting married so quickly. He needs to take his time if there is a next time, and find his true soulmate match. Not just someone that compliments him, someone that is a match to him and his ways.. Someone that excites him in all areas, sexually, mentally, and spiritually and emotionally. and yes he can go to bed everynight with a woman if he were single, but just sex is not the same as having everything with a woman. But then again, how does one know a woman will be all that to them if they marry them that quickly? Maybe he thinks he can know someone that quickly, but it really takes time to build something together and see if a person is your true match.  I hope he really isn't unhappy, but if he is, then he should fix it. If hes not, then he needs to act more happy, so people quit saying he isn't happy.

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I wonder if he is the type that stays unhappy because he is trying to punish himself or he doesn't feel he deserves it or something.. I doubt it, but sometimes when people have a lot, they could get those kind of feelings.  If he was so lonely and having a wife fullfills that, you would think that would mean that the wife and him would be great friends and he could have a lot to talk with her about and confide in her and her be his soulmate.  From what I have been reading here, she doesn't seem to be that for him. Thats ashame because he seems so deep and interesting and full of ideas. It would be great for him to have a true soulmate that is somewhat like him, and they can truly understand each other. Not just someone that puts up with things, someone that truly is the other part of him, his personality and soul.  Now of course, I don't know whether she is that or not.. But if he is unhappy as said on this board, then he needs to realize that happiness is not fulfilled by getting married so quickly. He needs to take his time if there is a next time, and find his true soulmate match. Not just someone that compliments him, someone that is a match to him and his ways.. Someone that excites him in all areas, sexually, mentally, and spiritually and emotionally. and yes he can go to bed everynight with a woman if he were single, but just sex is not the same as having everything with a woman. But then again, how does one know a woman will be all that to them if they marry them that quickly? Maybe he thinks he can know someone that quickly, but it really takes time to build something together and see if a person is your true match.  I hope he really isn't unhappy, but if he is, then he should fix it. If hes not, then he needs to act more happy, so people quit saying he isn't happy.

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           For one Nic have a wife on paper , but I think he got marry too fast ( like usual ) I don't think at all she do good to him  ( she is a child that get preggy to get what she wants = life standing + all king of expensive clothings + shopping + go out in glamourous restautants + whining because she wants to get rights in Nic's movies - acting or productions ) I think it will never change , he is that way as far as I can see and  more you age and lesser chances are for you to change the way you are ( just like a stain ) too bad Now for a "soulmate" I really don't belive in it myself sooo... I still say that Nic is better SINGLE...drag a woman sometimes in his bed and stop to believe in "clap of thunder" thing .. life is NOT a movie lol and put all his energies in what he really love = making films - write scenarios - acting - his house - his cars - himself ( be a bit selfish for once ) !!!    TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF NIC !

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Ella, what was he like before when he was happier in town?? Whats the difference now that you think he is unhappy now? just curious...

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When he's happy he has this certain look about him and he walks tall. Almost like a swagger. He smiles and flirts. But he just doesn't do this anymore. Even when I made an ass of myself on the sidewalk oneday(he was walking in a store)he didn't smile. He acknowledged me but didn't smile.