So I logged onto Hotmail this morning, and saw a notification that said someone had responded to one of my online ads. This was an ad that I completely forgot about, from ages ago. I checked it out... he's a 35-year old guy in Salt Lake City, UT. He ain't local, but I reckon I might be interested nonetheless...
What do y'all think?
He said I'm BEAUTIFUL!!!
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Damn, I hope this guy's for real. I know he lives in Utah, but my brother took a chance on someone who lived in another state, and now they're getting married in a few weeks. I'm not saying I want to get married right now, but this guy seems interesting. His ad sounds pretty normal, and he's CUTE!!! He's almost got a young Nic thing going on!!!!
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
Do you think he's hot? I'm wondering if this is one of those "bait" responses that some sites use to get you to sign up for premium memberships. Some sites like Match.come do this... they set up fake ads that feature really interesting people, then send mass emails to anyone who doesn't have a premium membership in hopes that they'll fork over the $$$ to send a reply.
Or maybe he's Mormon? I know not everyone in Salt Lake City is Mormon, but a lot of them are, and that would be a little weird if he wanted me to become his 5th wife or something. LMAO.
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
For what it's worth, I think he's adorable! He looks tall, is he? Are you able to send him a "wink" or email back??? Keep us informed and I'll keep my fingers crossed for you that he's atleast "REAL"! Good luck!
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LOL. At this point, I have no clue what his story is... like I said, he lives in another state, which is frustrating. As far as I know, I'm free to write back. I'm going to try tonight... I hope it's not something where I have to sign up, but if I do then I guess I'll take the plunge. I'm like a hamster on a wheel... I'll keep running in place hoping to catch the snack dangling just out of my reach. LOL.
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
All the dating places I tried had their profile where they either filled out a form about themselves, and also gave a little profile they wrote about themselves. Usually there's a standard form about height, body type, hair/eye color, even religion. I was just curious if you knew his height?
I'm so glad to be done with all that. Most of the guys I went out with didn't end up as a "hook up", but there are still guys that I've met over the yrs that we are still friends and talk whenever we get a chance. I actually have some guys that still care how I'm doing and call or write me. I have friends in different states that I've never met in person, but we still call and check on each other. I made some good friends if nothing else.
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All the dating places I tried had their profile where they either filled out a form about themselves, and also gave a little profile they wrote about themselves. Usually there's a standard form about height, body type, hair/eye color, even religion. I was just curious if you knew his height?
I didn't really pay any attention.
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
OK, I just responded to him and checked out his ad... he's shorter than me. He lists his height in the range 5'6" - 5'8". BAH! Oh well. He looks like he'd be tall!
Another guy wrote to me... a 45-year old black guy who was under 5 feet tall. I'm not kidding. I looked at his picture, because I figured maybe he just didn't set it right.... NOOOOO..... he's a little person. I couldn't believe he even bothered writing to me. He's BRAVE!!!
-- Edited by Damaris at 19:30, 2006-05-22
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
I'm 5'8" and pretty much any one who responded to me was shorter then me. I finally added to my profile "that if you're not atleast 6' and above, please don't bother". It's hard to find tall men, yet alone handsome, hot, smart, tall men....lol.
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At this point, I just don't care anymore. I find it amusing, but that's about it. Like I said, he lives in Utah... and the odds are very likely that he won't write a 2nd time. Most of them don't. You go back and forth once or twice, and then they disappear off the face of the earth. But we'll see what happens in this case, LOL.
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
Hey D just an idea if you don't mind....a good idea to meet someone elsewhere than on Internet is the Newspaper the biggest newspaper of the City where you live or where you want to meet lol ...then you make the appointment in a public Cafe where there is crowd ....What do you think ????
Here an example : "Beautiful swan, long feathers, 37 years old, want to swim with a duck for good time ...send your pic and informations to my P.O. BOX I will reply as soon as I get your missive ! Answer to everyone ... blah HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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Life isn't like a chocolate box It's more like a jar of jalapenos What you do today May burn your butt tomorrow ...
I'm only 34!! Don't try to age me any more than I already am!!!!
Besides, I'm not a swan... and I don't have long feathers...
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
So it's been a week now, and this guy has not replied. No response whatsoever. Why do men do this? Was this some kind of a joke?
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
Dang... he was hella cute too. I knew it was too good to be true. Well, at least I didn't have to pay to respond.
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
Why did he write to me once and then never write back when I replied? I didn't say anything bad... I was nice... I expressed interest in corresponding with him... but he disappeared.
Guys do this all the time. Why?
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
Just from my experience with on line dating.....they write to alot of girls, then they get side tracked by someone else that wrote back to them. My Mom said that it's like a "buffet" for men online. They are not near as frightened to go meet with a girl from the net as we are. To them it's a big adventure.
I had alot of different men I was talking with that dissappeared or didn't get back to me after we had been going back and force, then out of nowhere they write. Most of them got hooked up with a girl and broke up and are back on the net "shopping" again.
A couple of the men I really liked got married, they told me "oh, I found someone and I just got married". Hell, I didn't know that they even had marriage on their pea brains to begin with. (maybe because I'm not) But recently 2 have contacted me that they want to start talking on the phone again. They both are now getting divorced. One has a baby girl named "Harley" (he said he always wanted a Harley, the bike that is) Too late now. Danny boy is home and they blew it. They should have jumped at the chance with me while I was lonely all those years. Now they can just go pound salt!!!!!...lol.
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Well, sounds like they may be pounding something... but it won't be salt. LMAO.
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
Well, you know, first-chair hotties like you have no trouble picking up men in real life.
Toads like me gotta hop on whatever virtual lilypad we can find and hope our tongue is sticky enough to catch a fly.
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
lol. what a way to put it "D"...lol. I used to bar hop and go clubbing and I always met men. But after awhile I was just meeting mostly men that drank and partied. No one with real goals or "standards". Mostly just drinkers.
After all my gal pals had kids or were involved there wasn't anyone to go out and hang with like before. When I first got my computer, men just came to me out of nowhere on AOL. It took me awhile to figure out that they could do a search for gals by city or profiles. I used to talk to some of them for hours and I did make some friends. So being I was meeting men w/o even trying off of the "net", I did fill out some of those dating sites' profiles. I never met a man that I could take seriously or want to be with that was real!!! Most of them are only looking for a night of sex, or "booty call" and it's almost like a contest to see how many women they can rack up.
After being lied to about their height, looks etc. I finally just gave up and pulled all my profiles. I had always hoped to just be somewhere, shopping, pumping gas and come across a guy that when we seen each other we just wanted to know more and maybe start a conversation. I always did believe in meeting someone faced to faced first, but in these times everyone uses the computer for everything, shopping, paying bills, might as well find your mate as well.....lol. I have alot better luck at receiving what I want off HSN or QVC!...lol
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I just want to tell you D ..that nobody is perfect and anyone can find the right person and or can meet friends somewhere else than a ONLINE DATING ...did you ever try a SPEED DATING NIGHT lol that is fun , ok that is fast but at least you meet some guys FACE TO FACE !
And if you go shopping centers , restaurant, librairy, exhibitions, theatre, gym even at work and anywhere there is for sure someone that you could like and that could suits to you ..if you are too fancy about to get a God :( well then ..sure it's gonna be very hard to find a someone unless we are very lucky to get a God !!
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I signed up for a speed dating night last week, but it was cancelled because not enough men were interested in attending.
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
I couldn't believe he even bothered writing to me. He's BRAVE!!!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA 
