Yeah and they'll be just as successful at saving these types of girls as we are those types of guys! People like that don't want to be saved! They choose that kind of lifestyle for whatever f*cked up reason and stick with it! It's VERY rare that they meet that someone special that comes into their life & saves them! I tried like hell to help my ex and failed misserabley! And all I got from it is the guilt that I couldn't do anything for him! -- Edited by a_perfect_circle1678 at 13:50, 2006-02-05
For more information on this topic, see "Nic and Alice".
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I don't know what catagorie I fall in. Perhaps the one of "Oh sh!t she has kids, RUN!"
Actually, I've seen a lot of online ads written by guys who are looking for someone with kids. In fact, I've found that not having children seems to put you at a bit of a disadvantage, as some people think there's something not quite right about you. Like you either hate kids or can't hold a relationship long enough to have any.
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a_perfect_circle1678 wrote: I don't know what catagorie I fall in. Perhaps the one of "Oh sh!t she has kids, RUN!" Actually, I've seen a lot of online ads written by guys who are looking for someone with kids. In fact, I've found that not having children seems to put you at a bit of a disadvantage, as some people think there's something not quite right about you. Like you either hate kids or can't hold a relationship long enough to have any.
That's odd! I heard alot of guys refer to a woman with kids as having too much baggage.
Huh. Perhaps it's a regional thing. Around these parts, there are a LOT of single dads, and they are always looking for single moms. Maybe it's because they know they'll accept their kids or at least won't have as much of a problem with it. I'm telling you, I live in the wrong part of the U.S.
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Huh. Perhaps it's a regional thing. Around these parts, there are a LOT of single dads, and they are always looking for single moms. Maybe it's because they know they'll accept their kids or at least won't have as much of a problem with it. I'm telling you, I live in the wrong part of the U.S.
I never wanted to have any kid (s) ....it's very far to be my priority in life ...it,s different for everyone ...I know ...it would be really hard or I might say impossible for me to live with a man that have kids...I decide to have 0 ...so why should I live with a man that have one or some ?! Anyway I don't want to live with any man at all whatsoever...................... No way ! I love tooo much my freedom !
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I never wanted to have any kid (s) ....it's very far to be my priority in life ...it,s different for everyone ...I know ...it would be really hard or I might say impossible for me to live with a man that have kids...I decide to have 0 ...so why should I live with a man that have one or some ?! Anyway I don't want to live with any man at all whatsoever...................... No way ! I love tooo much my freedom !
I'm kinda the same way. I could have had kids by now if I really wanted them, but it was never a priority of mine. I like kids, and if I ever found someone special and got married (and if he wanted them), then I would probably do it. But for now I'm happy being childless.
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Kimmy wrote: I never wanted to have any kid (s) ....it's very far to be my priority in life ...it,s different for everyone ...I know ...it would be really hard or I might say impossible for me to live with a man that have kids...I decide to have 0 ...so why should I live with a man that have one or some ?! Anyway I don't want to live with any man at all whatsoever...................... No way ! I love tooo much my freedom ! I'm kinda the same way. I could have had kids by now if I really wanted them, but it was never a priority of mine. I like kids, and if I ever found someone special and got married (and if he wanted them), then I would probably do it. But for now I'm happy being childless.
Your better off waiting till your absolutely sure your even somewhat ready! I started having mine young, and don't get me wrong, I love them & don't regret anything, but sometimes I wish I would have waited. Atleast until I had a better head on my shoulders.
It sucks like an overcharged vacuum when you don't.
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It's fun if you have someone to share it with. It sucks like an overcharged vacuum when you don't.
I know Damaris ...I am very so much picky when it comes to men ...We all should be picky...I should've ask him when I got that Martini ....if it was ok for him to **** me now or anytime he wants ...hahahaha...next time if ever ....I will for sure ...
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I'm picky too. Truthfully, most men just don't do it for me. That sounds awful, but they just don't trip my doo-dah. Now, if one of them were bold and assertive with me and chatted me up, and was very charming with me, I would probably find myself more attracted to him (assuming he didn't smell bad or wasn't hideous).
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I'm picky too. Truthfully, most men just don't do it for me. That sounds awful, but they just don't trip my doo-dah. Now, if one of them were bold and assertive with me and chatted me up, and was very charming with me, I would probably find myself more attracted to him (assuming he didn't smell bad or wasn't hideous).
But Damaris ...that is ok and even better to be picky, then you don't regret you went we someone that after you feel you want to kill because he gross you ...lol if you know what I mean ....
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Damaris wrote: I'm picky too. Truthfully, most men just don't do it for me. That sounds awful, but they just don't trip my doo-dah. Now, if one of them were bold and assertive with me and chatted me up, and was very charming with me, I would probably find myself more attracted to him (assuming he didn't smell bad or wasn't hideous). But Damaris ...that is ok and even better to be picky, then you don't regret you went we someone that after you feel you want to kill because he gross you ...lol if you know what I mean ....
Hey girlies ......I like that thread ...Ella did you finally took pics with your Cell ? Come on do it
I have tried to find them around town but no such luck girlie!!!!! He is nowhere to be found lately!!!!! Must be working again. I'll get him when he gets in town. I will!!!!
Hey Nottooshy! How have you been? The last time I seen you on here you were sick. I hope all is well with you. Nice to see you here.
That new pic of Nic and Alice is great. Where did you find it? I wonder where they were that they needed those fur collared coats? Thanks for sharing it with us.
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Kimmy wrote: Hey girlies ......I like that thread ...Ella did you finally took pics with your Cell ? Come on do it I have tried to find them around town but no such luck girlie!!!!! He is nowhere to be found lately!!!!! Must be working again. I'll get him when he gets in town. I will!!!!
I know you will Ella ...sure you will ....if Nic is at your working places take the pics ...and you could think of Damaris sl's about your story FF lol maybe he will be by himself !? Who knows ...you can go in the dressing room with him lol
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Hey Nottooshy! How have you been? The last time I seen you on here you were sick. I hope all is well with you. Nice to see you here. That new pic of Nic and Alice is great. Where did you find it? I wonder where they were that they needed those fur collared coats? Thanks for sharing it with us.
NO pic of her and Nic together is nice!!
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Cheripits wrote: Hey Nottooshy! How have you been? The last time I seen you on here you were sick. I hope all is well with you. Nice to see you here. That new pic of Nic and Alice is great. Where did you find it? I wonder where they were that they needed those fur collared coats? Thanks for sharing it with us. NO pic of her and Nic together is nice!!
Yeahhh ELLLA ....No pic of SushiKimShiTheWaitress...ONLY NIC but NIC & YOU TOGETHER WOULD BE WONDERFUL !..........TAKE A PIC OF NIC WHEN HE IS SOLO ....
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It's been almost 2 years now and she is travelling the world with him, looking for houses in Germany. If she's still celebrating his birthday privately in his hotel with him then she must be doing something right. You'd just think they'd look happier. Maybe because we'd all be so giddy that their response seems deflated???
I have add another picture to my page. I want to make a big book sometimes. I hope everyone is good and happy. http://community.webshots.com/album/547550091SVMteC
Hi Nottooshy! How have you been? Last we heard from you, you were sick.