Kimmy wrote:

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a_perfect_circle1678 wrote: Kimmy wrote: HEY GIRLS I REALLY LOVE THAT KIND OF CONVERSATION !!!!! AND PLEASE STAY THE WAY YOU ARE  ELLALOOFASPONGE .... SAME TO DAMARIS....PERFECT ...CHERIPITS....SINCLAIRE ....AND MYSELF  KIMMY........ The E.D.C.P.S.K. Association US  THE 6 PRIVATE NIC'S HONEST LOYAL SERVANTS AND LOVERS ... FOREVER NIC'S PRIVATE HAREM-- Edited by Kimmy at 10:49, 2006-02-04 LOL! Thanks Kimmy! I will! But what do the letters(E.D.C.P.S.K.)stand for?          E  for Ella...D  for Damaris....C for Cheripits....P for Perfect....S for Sinclaire ....K for Kimmy hahahahah          The E.D.C.P.S.K. for Secret & Private Loyal Nic's Harem Association ...or          The 6 Non-GoldDigger Favorites of Nicolas Cage LOL ...I am just having fun !!! 

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finding a mate should not be on the day's to do list:

Let's see, groceries, check ; laundry, check ; oil change in car, move to tomorrow ; man,

Do what makes you happy!!!  I've learned the hard way that life is too short.  It's your life, live it how you want.  (and it's no different on the other side, I'm on the boards too)

Sinclaire wrote:

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finding a mate should not be on the day's to do list: Let's see, groceries, check ; laundry, check ; oil change in car, move to tomorrow ; man, Do what makes you happy!!!  I've learned the hard way that life is too short.  It's your life, live it how you want.  (and it's no different on the other side, I'm on the boards too)

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Now, see, that's my problem.  I am both amazingly simplistic and unbearably hard to please. 

I have zero interest in bars (at least going out to them by myself, and since I don't know anyone who is available on the weekends, that's my only option), and I'm not really a drinker anyway.  I love to sing, so I will go for the karaoke, but the drunks work on my final nerve after only a half hour or so.  Besides, I run the risk of having some **** say rude **** to me like what happened last night - no thanks.  What else are you supposed to do as an adult when you're dateless?

All I want to do is make out with a really hot guy.  Is that so wrong?

And BTW, how many times do I have to listen to the greasy hillbillies upstairs have sex before I'm finally allowed to declare myself legally insane??  Anybody??  I've already got the couple to my left getting it on almost daily... I can hear them through the vents, when I'm in the bathroom.  They seem to have an abnormal fascination with vibrating objects and talking dirty.  Ewwww... living in a condo is not so great sometimes.

DAMNIT!!!  Everyone is getting their freak on but me!!

OMFG!!!

How did you find out about this?  Do I even want to know?

Ewww, ewww, EWWWWWWWWW!!!  Now I feel compelled to scrub myself down with lye soap and a wire brush... and I don't even know them!!

Well, I do know that the hillbilly gal upstairs was talking to me about something and had mentioned that her boyfriend wants her to do some sexual things that she's not into... and given the kind of freak she is, I don't even want to KNOW how bad they are if even SHE won't do them.

Hey, I do know what you're talking about.  That woman I know who has visited Italy twice with her boyfriend (they've been to England and Switzerland too) is the same way.  We used to hang out together before she turned into a complete bitch... we'd go into a club or bar or whatever, and she would have several guys hitting on her, buying her drinks, asking her to dance, whatever.  Meanwhile, I got NOTHING. 

To make this scenario even more puzzling, she is a BIG woman.  6'3", around 400 lbs, facial hair, dressed kind of sloppy/matronly.  But she had this mojo thing with men that would reel them in like crazy.  Sinclaire and I think she must produce a LOT of pheromones.  Her body must pump them out by the gallons, because it was unbelievable how things went whenever I was around her. 

a_perfect_circle1678 wrote:

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WOW! That's f*cking weird! My friend is somewhat like that too! She's short & heavy and has a very bad attitude about men. She's says men are only good one day a week, FRIDAY/PAYDAY! But she has a man in her life all the time! I treat my men like gold & get ****! What is wrong with that picture!?

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I couldn't even imagine.  I honestly have no clue.  When I have someone in my life, I also treat them like gold... and everything falls apart quite fast.  I couldn't even begin to tell you how many times I've had guys leave me because I was "too nice" and "too perfect", and then they hooked up with some skank with a bad attitude or a drinking problem who ends up taking all their money and screwing around on them.

I refuse to change, though, and you shouldn't either.  I know what I am and what I want, and if I have to wait a long time to get it, I will.  It wouldn't hurt to find someone to have some fun with in the meantime, though... but even that seems like a distant dream.  Hell, the guys I meet aren't even interested in sex!

LMAO.  That does seem to be what they want, doesn't it?  If you're a bitchy piece of trash leeching off everyone and screwing everything that moves, you've got a fighting chance.  Otherwise, forget it. 

I really do think men are attracted to the women who need rescuing, who need someone to "straighten them out".

But you know what I don't understand?  You know the one thing that really throws me for a loop?

If a girl wants to have a little "fun", it's actually kind of difficult to find someone who is up for that if you're otherwise decent.  Guys put all women in one of two categories:  virgin or whore.  If you don't look or act like a whore, then you are a "virgin" and therefore untouchable.  You're a great girl, the kind of girl a man should marry, you've got a wonderful personality... but they won't go out with you.  Or, if they do, they dump you later because deep down they were really wanting a whore and only dated a virgin to appease other people.