Well, my sil lost the baby. It happened yesterday right before her shift at work ended. My brother is taking it really bad. I don't know what to say to him. He's a little upset with her because she's had miscarriges before(not his) and he thinks she should have stayed home from work atleast till she knew she was good to go. She works 6 days a week waitressing & that's a really stressful job. I was really hoping that things would have been alright.
I'm so sorry to hear about that. It's a confusing situation, because the baby wasn't born yet but it still existed... that's terrible.
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Ohhh....I am sorry to hear about that ! How many months she was pregnant ? Hopefully she will be back in shape and healthy too.... .....Condolences !
She was only 10 weeks Kimmy. This couldn't have happened at a more worse time too. Today's her birthday. I skoke with my brother today & he said that he came home from work & found her crying. I feel so bad & there's nothing I can do!
I'm so sorry to hear about that. It's a confusing situation, because the baby wasn't born yet but it still existed... that's terrible.
Yeah it definately existed for them. They even had names picked out. But atleast they're talking about trying again. I really do hope that next time will be the one because I don't think she can handle anymore disappointment.
Stories like this are so heartbreaking. I'm convinced that there will be a baby (or two...) in the future for them. I'm sure next time she will take it easy and not overexert herself. That's what one woman I knew had to do. She was literally bedridden for seven months of her pregnancy because she was in danger of miscarrying if she even went to an office job for a few hours every day. She was very small, thin and delicate, but I'm sure there were other factors too.
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
Stories like this are so heartbreaking. I'm convinced that there will be a baby (or two...) in the future for them. I'm sure next time she will take it easy and not overexert herself. That's what one woman I knew had to do. She was literally bedridden for seven months of her pregnancy because she was in danger of miscarrying if she even went to an office job for a few hours every day. She was very small, thin and delicate, but I'm sure there were other factors too.
I really believe that they will have one too and that this is just a little set back. She may have to give up her job though. She's not crazy about that idea, but sometimes you have to make sacrifices. I think she's worried about how they will make ends meet if she's not working. We'll see I guess. They're talking about trying again in a couple months.
.....Condolences !
