Aw, y'all are just too much for me to handle.  Cheri, my eyes are green.  I really REALLY want to wear contacts again... really badly.  Right now I can't, but I'm hoping soon they will make a high-oxygen lens that I can wear.  If I get this new job (which has MUCH better insurance than what I have now), then I can realistically look into it.

I actually do not date very much at all... I don't get asked out, and I don't meet that many available men I would want to date anyway.  Only weirdos write to me online, so now I'm just trying to put myself in "least expect it" mode, LOL. 

Now, see, I actually did think of that, but I have zero interest in most men's activities.  About the closest I would come to that would be going to a sports bar, but I'm not into sports... unless it's baseball, and that's only because I think the uniforms are sexy.  Oh, and the food is usually pretty good at sports bars too.  So if I can go to Buffalo Wild Wings and have some spicy boneless strips and watch hot guys play baseball, I would be okay with that.  I've discovered, however, that when guys go to a sports bar it's to get away from WOMEN, get drunk and watch sports.  LOL.  At least in Oklahoma.  But they're a different breed here.

I did always think it would be fun to learn to shoot a gun.  Or use a crossbow/bow and arrow.  The idea of learning to use a weapon, even if only for target practice, is intriguing to me.  But how would a man feel about a woman wielding a pistol or crossbow?  LMAO.

I've walked past a Hooters before (big windows - you can see inside).  Cheri, believe me, it's no big deal.  The girls that work there are wearing more than some girls you see on the street.  And most of them are average-sized... maybe a B cup, less-than-full C.  It's not exactly a "Twin Peaks" marathon in there (at least the one I walked past).  But again, Oklahoma is different. 

I had the misfortune of spending last New Year's Eve in a strip club (NOT my choice... my date and his buddies wanted to go, and so did all their girlfriends).  Until then, I had envisioned strippers as being these stunning goddesses with perfect bodies and exquisite faces, undulating enthusiastically for the masses.  What I discovered that night is that most of the girls that work at those places (at least around here) are just your average chicks off the street, trying to turn a buck.  No hard bodies, no supermodels... in fact, I was surprised to see that many of them had cellulite on their arms and the backs of their thighs.  I was shocked.  I always assumed you had to look much better than average to land a job at a strip joint.  Apparently, this is not the case... and this was one of the bigger strip clubs in OKC.  And the guys that go to these places don't even bother to watch the girls dance... it was really a weird, boring, non-sexual vibe.  Just a bunch of people in a bar, some wearing less clothes than others.  That was basically it.

WHOA.   That's insane.

They need to have places like that for women... something beyond a couple of Chippendales cruising into town every couple of months.  Women can be pervs too!!

Wow, imagine if there were places that women could go, like guys do... like those wild bars that Cheri mentioned... where you could go in the back rooms and get whatever you want.  OMG.  The female population would rise up and overthrow the world!!

Ooh, imagine having a man at your beck and call, willing to do whatever you want for the right price.  DAMN.  No wonder men are so freakin' cocky... they have that option.  We don't.  Unless, of course, we go to Heidi Fleiss' Stud Farm when it opens.  That would be a hoot.

Here there is a Club I discovered in Montreal , Canada...the 281 always open for women only ! lol

www.281.ca/   

We do have 2 clubs down here for woman. One is called "Crazy Horse" and I hear it is really great!!!

Funny you mention the Canadians. I just read yest. on the net about Canada passing a law that it is ok to have group sex. Seems this guy runs a club up there where you pay a membership fee and you have a pass code to enter this place, and anything goes.

They passed a law saying it was ok for him to run this place being it is consentual sex and does not impose on the general public. The guy says he has backers now from S. Florida to open another one of these joints.