Patty

Patty · I bought some spaghetti sauce ;)

Patty

Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

You look AMAZING!! Very, very photogenic. OK, now I'm feeling like a slouch. LOL.

Patty · I bought some spaghetti sauce ;)

You are all very attractive . I just happen to know a real good photographer that is a friend of mine. Also, he had a professional makeup artist at the studio to do my makeup. The hat was a prop at the studio, I thought the hat was unique looking.

-- Edited by Patty at 01:51, 2006-07-13

-- Edited by Patty at 02:11, 2006-07-13

Kimmy · Moderator

Ohh..you are very pretty Patty ! Thanks to share your pic !

Sinclaire · Moderator

Holy smokes Patty, you'll snag Nic for sure if he sees you around town!

Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

That's what I was saying! Now I'm sad... I look sucky compared to you guys. I'm not photogenic at all... can I just put up a fake pic instead? lol.

Sinclaire · Moderator

Um, no, that would be totally stupid. Get some professionally done. Treat yourself to the whole kit and kaboodle, top to bottom, then drag your sexy butt into a real studio.

Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

Bah. I am not sexy. But I need someone who can make me LOOK sexy!

Sinclaire · Moderator

1/2 of it is your head (attitude), the other 1/2 is soft lighting and pro beauty techniques that every star uses for hours before a shoot that we don't have access to but constantly compare ourselves to. We are busy and don't have the time or money. So take a day, pamper yourself, and get the pros to take some good shots of you!!! I can't wait to see it!!

Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

But I'm talking about real-life hotness. The pics? I don't give a damn about those, really. I wish I looked hot in real life... that's where it matters.

Sinclaire · Moderator

We think you do. It's all a persona...buck up a little Castor and strut.

Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

Yeah, but you see, Castor is hot for REAL. And he shoots anyone who says otherwise. LMAO.

Besides, Castor has a ****. I'd like to keep my gender intact, at least....

Sinclaire · Moderator

little more practice and you can shoot people too....but you're right that no one can fill the seat of those maroon pants like he does (I know you're supposed to be looking at the gold guns, but that's only a rumor I heard because I only see his butt)

Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

Patty · I bought some spaghetti sauce ;)

Damaris, You are way too hard on yourself. Yes it makes the difference to have it professionally done, you should. Only thing I hate about my picture is how the photographer had me bend over a table and my hunched back looks weird. But it was the best one out of the bunch.

Patty · I bought some spaghetti sauce ;)

Damaris, I have learned in life that if as a woman, you portray to men that YOU think you are sexy, then they will see you that way. It comes from within. And with the way you write, I would think that you ARE sexy! With being able to portray those kind of thoughts to paper and all. Sexy is a feeling..

Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

I dunno... I mean, men are very visual creatures. If you don't look sexy (to them), you can act sexy all you want but they aren't going to think you are. It's not like with us women, where we think many different things are sexy about a man.

Patty · I bought some spaghetti sauce ;)

I disagree because yes they ARE visual, but it seems that if you portray yourself a certain way then they actually see you that way. For example: men that meet women online first. They have an image of what they see you as in their head and if you meet them later in person they will see you the way they fantasized about you being because you became a fantasy to them first. Or how about women that when they make love to a guy, sometimes they worry about what their naked body looks like, when in reality, men probably won't notice the faults if the woman is enjoying herself and getting into it. Anotherwords, all he sees is her enjoying herself and that is sexy to him. So sexy that he doesn't notice the flaws that she thinks her body has. I didn't learn all this stuff until about 2 years ago. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't think so. I think if a woman portrays herself as sexy and has self confidence no matter what, then a man will pick up the vibes and see her that way. Women are way harder on themselves and on other woman than men are on women.

Kimmy · Moderator

Patty wrote:

I disagree because yes they ARE visual, but it seems that if you portray yourself a certain way then they actually see you that way. For example: men that meet women online first. They have an image of what they see you as in their head and if you meet them later in person they will see you the way they fantasized about you being because you became a fantasy to them first. Or how about women that when they make love to a guy, sometimes they worry about what their naked body looks like, when in reality, men probably won't notice the faults if the woman is enjoying herself and getting into it. Anotherwords, all he sees is her enjoying herself and that is sexy to him. So sexy that he doesn't notice the flaws that she thinks her body has. I didn't learn all this stuff until about 2 years ago. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't think so. I think if a woman portrays herself as sexy and has self confidence no matter what, then a man will pick up the vibes and see her that way. Women are way harder on themselves and on other woman than men are on women.

I agree with all that Patty !

The main thing is ( and I know about it ) To be self confident , to love yourself ( even if sometimes it's hard ..) because before to let someone love you.. you have to love yourself a lot , take good care of yourself . I always been a little bitch hahahah I might say an Alpha bitch and I think in a way that brought me many good things ( and some bad things too lol ) You know I am far to be perfect ! Some people that don't really knows me thinks I am a bit sluttish lol but I am not really ...just a little hahahahaha ..........alright

You know you can seduce, charm fascinate any men if you want !!! Anybody can ! Just get brain power Men don't just look at you they perceive you, they have senses to like ok there is the first look ...but ...they ear your voice ( they might love the sound of your voice when you speak ) your attitude , the way you move , the way you talk, the way you smile , the way you drink your Martini LOL ....your smell ( a perfume you wear that tells about your personnality ..or only your natural smell who knows ! ) your skin , your hair ( some men like to graze it ..I know about it ) your mouth , your teeth ( clean white teeth and fresh breath is something to ) and then clothing...the way you dress ...you can dress sexy ..but in a classy way ... make up ...etc....

I am not perfect at all ...I would love a nose job ( I hate my nose ) correct 2 teeth too...and few other things that I don't like on me ! See ......Damaris you are a very pretty tall woman so stop with that inferiority complex !!!! and LOVE YOURSELF that is the first step girl ! !!!!

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Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

Kimmy... need I remind you that, the first thing you said when you saw my picture was "get rid of your glasses and lighten your hair"? LOL. That was the first thing out of your mouth.

I guess that's your Alpha Bitch talking.

Kimmy · Moderator

Damaris wrote:

Kimmy... need I remind you that, the first thing you said when you saw my picture was "get rid of your glasses and lighten your hair"? LOL. That was the first thing out of your mouth. I guess that's your Alpha Bitch talking.

Ok ...but I want YOU to be happy !"!!! That is why D !

Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

???????

If you wanted me to be happy, you wouldn't have said anything at all.

Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

Sinclaire wrote:

We think you do. It's all a persona...buck up a little Castor and strut.

And, um, no offense, but there's a difference between some chicks thinking you're hot and a GUY thinking you're hot.

Kimmy · Moderator

ok sorry Damaris

Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

No, it's OK. You were just being honest. No worries.

-- Edited by Damaris at 23:08, 2006-07-14

Kimmy · Moderator

Damaris wrote:

No, it's OK. You were just being honest. No worries.-- Edited by Damaris at 23:08, 2006-07-14

Thanks D ...I feel just a lil tiny bit better ...

Sinclaire · Moderator

Damaris wrote:

Sinclaire wrote: We think you do. It's all a persona...buck up a little Castor and strut. And, um, no offense, but there's a difference between some chicks thinking you're hot and a GUY thinking you're hot.

Okay, if you say so. We've been through this before and your mind is made up.

Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

Oh, now I feel like I've just been chastized by Harry Potter. LMAO.

Cheripits · Moderator

Hey Patty, thank you so much for sharing that pic with us. Just adorable. There is a movie star that you remind me of but I can't think of her name. If I remember right, she was the girl that Brendan Frasier was trying to be with in "Bedazzled".

Just the same, you look awesome! Thanks again.

Damaris · Queen Perv Supremo

Cheri, I know you couldn't be referring to Elizabeth Hurley... because that woman is really a bit hard-looking (too much dieting... there is something to be said for feminine curves). You're probably referring to the other girl, his "crush".