I had no idea he was that young until after he asked me out. He looks much older than 22... he doesn't make my doo-dah hum, but he's not repulsive either. He's been in the Army, married and divorced and has 2 kids... all at the age of 22. WTF? I've never even been engaged, let alone married, and I'm almost 34. He knows how old I am... hell, he actually guessed me at 35, and I think he was trying to be polite when he said that (the look on his face said that he was thinking early 40's.... bastard.... I do NOT look that old! Frankly, I'm offended that he would guess me at 35 and not younger, but I digress).
Like I said, he doesn't make the doo-dah hum, but he seemed like a nice guy, and when he asked I just instinctively said OK because I wasn't turned off by him or anything. Now I discover that he's not only WAY too young for me, but he's got a hell of a lot of baggage for someone so young. No good could possibly come of this. And you wanna know what makes things even worse? I have no clue what his name is. Stupid, huh? He's calling about 10 - 11 tomorrow for lunch. Well, alrighty then. Damaris steps into another pile of **** again.
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WOW Damaris ! It's about like a close way of Nic and Miss Sushi lol ( You are Nic and He is Sushi lol)
Just beware it's not because he is young that he is nice and innocent ....bring your own condoms if ever you plan to boink lol......and get personnal informations on him too ! Never careful anough "D" those days ! But go go go have a lunch with him first and you'll see ....
You know what ?? I dated a 15 years old younger 2 years ago ..it was just a one night stand ( and few rendez vous ) to me though I was not interested at all to get a real relationship , but that was fun ! Those young studs are sooooooo hard, powerful and vigorous woohooooooooooo ! And you know what ? He had some CONDOMS with him lol ...but I did not let him using his ...we used mine hahahahahaha just in case !
-- Edited by Kimmy at 10:18, 2006-04-29
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WOW Damaris ! It's about like a close way of Nic and Miss Sushi lol ( You are Nic and He is Sushi lol) Just beware it's not because he is young that he is nice and innocent ....bring your own condoms if ever you plan to boink lol......and get personnal informations on him too !
Kimmy.... like I said.... there is no doo-dah stimulation with him. I had a couple of glasses of wine (along with the mai tai he bought me), he is the friend of a friend, and he caught me completely off guard. He's short, but looks way older than 22. He's nice, but at this point sex is the last thing on my mind with this guy. Now, if he were HOT, that would be a different story!
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OK, so we met for lunch today. Overall, it wasn't too bad, but I really just don't see myself getting involved with this person. He has a LOT of baggage... divorced with two children by age 22 (wife left him, took all of his money, belongings and of course the kids to move in with her brother, who is a drug addict), honorably discharged from the Army (for an undisclosed "medical condition" for which he is still taking medication), he's one step away from being homeless (shuffling around from brother to brother, friend to friend, with noplace to call his own), and for some odd reason, large sums of money is continually disappearing from his wallet. He has no idea why, but admits that he loses things a lot. Take that one however you like.
I think the biggest issue with him, that really turned me off, was that he not only talked about himself the entire date but had nothing but depressing or negative things to say. He didn't give me any real reason to want to get to know him better. He's not ugly, but he's not sexy or good-looking enough for me to want him only for a thrill... he didn't ask me anything about myself or try to get to know ME in any way, only dumped his problems in my lap. Where is the appeal?
He wants to call me later this week to get together again. I made sure to emphasize that this is a "friends first" scenario, and I'm hoping he'll eventually get the hint and maybe even realize that I'm not that into him. I don't want to hurt his feelings, as it looks like he's got enough problems and bad feelings in his life as it is, but at the same time I don't know if I want to get wrapped up in all of this. He alluded to the fact that his "medical condition" (I have no idea what it is - it's not a war-related thing, it's something he developed outside of that... it made it impossible for him to continue his service in the Army) has left him physically weak, and I know that's not his fault, but there is probably not going to be any freaktastic romps going on with this guy, even if I was attracted to him in that way.
Am I paranoid for seeing red flags with this guy?
-- Edited by Damaris at 16:29, 2006-04-29
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Oh, and one more thing... he's short and chubby. He weighs more than me, and is much shorter. He's a very nice man, but I really need someone about my height or bigger. I know that's horribly, typically female of me, but I can't help it! I'm 5'11"! What the hell am I going to do with a man who's 5'6" or so????
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Oh, and one more thing... he's short and chubby. He weighs more than me, and is much shorter. He's a very nice man, but I really need someone about my height or bigger. I know that's horribly, typically female of me, but I can't help it! I'm 5'11"! What the hell am I going to do with a man who's 5'6" or so????
You know Damaris I understand your point , absolutely !
I went twice in Texas while ago and it seems in that State that most men are tall
I mean caucasian ones ...I went in San Antonio, in Dallas and Forth Worth
and Goodness some looks like football players ...
some of them were looking awsome business men
and me soooooo short ...
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You know Damaris I understand your point , absolutely ! I went twice in Texas while ago and it seems in that State that most men are tall I mean caucasian ones ...I went in San Antonio, in Dallas and Forth Worth and Goodness some looks like football players ... some of them were looking awsome business men and me soooooo short ...
Hey, you weren't far from me at all! Just 3 - 4 hours away. That rocks! All of the men in my family, on both sides, are very tall, strong and broad-shouldered, so this is normal to me. Being with a short and/or scrawny man is foreign, and quite a turn-off. Again, I know it's incredibly shallow, and I think that if I met a man who was small but very sweet and charming (and cute), I would give him a chance. I've dated short men before, but it made me feel so HUGE in comparison because I'm tall for a woman. I felt like I was their mother, or their bodyguard.
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I say don't knock the "younger man". I for one am all in favor of "youth injections"...lol. Danny is 12 yrs younger then me, and I know for a fact that I would be just an old, fat redhead if not for him. He keeps me going and it's flattering to have a younger man want to be with you. At least for me it is!!!!
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But not when they have as many issues as this guy. And besides, he's not really doing it for me sexually, so his age is a moot point.
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
lmao.....it's a term men use about small, short or petite woman. As in: to sit and spin....lol. Guys refer to it that with a short gal you can just put them on top of a man and just give them a spin! (no long legs to get in the way) Get it????? "Spinner"...........I kid you not!!!!!!
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lmao.....it's a term men use about small, short or petite woman. As in: to sit and spin....lol. Guys refer to it that with a short gal you can just put them on top of a man and just give them a spin! (no long legs to get in the way) Get it????? "Spinner"...........I kid you not!!!!!!
I was close though ...lol SIT ON IT AND SPIN lol
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Life isn't like a chocolate box It's more like a jar of jalapenos What you do today May burn your butt tomorrow ...
lmao.....it's a term men use about small, short or petite woman. As in: to sit and spin....lol. Guys refer to it that with a short gal you can just put them on top of a man and just give them a spin! (no long legs to get in the way) Get it????? "Spinner"...........I kid you not!!!!!!
Huh. Well, I would not appeal to a man like this.
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Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
OK, so we met for lunch today. Overall, it wasn't too bad, but I really just don't see myself getting involved with this person. He has a LOT of baggage... divorced with two children by age 22 (wife left him, took all of his money, belongings and of course the kids to move in with her brother, who is a drug addict), honorably discharged from the Army (for an undisclosed "medical condition" for which he is still taking medication), he's one step away from being homeless (shuffling around from brother to brother, friend to friend, with noplace to call his own), and for some odd reason, large sums of money is continually disappearing from his wallet. He has no idea why, but admits that he loses things a lot. Take that one however you like. I think the biggest issue with him, that really turned me off, was that he not only talked about himself the entire date but had nothing but depressing or negative things to say. He didn't give me any real reason to want to get to know him better. He's not ugly, but he's not sexy or good-looking enough for me to want him only for a thrill... he didn't ask me anything about myself or try to get to know ME in any way, only dumped his problems in my lap. Where is the appeal? He wants to call me later this week to get together again. I made sure to emphasize that this is a "friends first" scenario, and I'm hoping he'll eventually get the hint and maybe even realize that I'm not that into him. I don't want to hurt his feelings, as it looks like he's got enough problems and bad feelings in his life as it is, but at the same time I don't know if I want to get wrapped up in all of this. He alluded to the fact that his "medical condition" (I have no idea what it is - it's not a war-related thing, it's something he developed outside of that... it made it impossible for him to continue his service in the Army) has left him physically weak, and I know that's not his fault, but there is probably not going to be any freaktastic romps going on with this guy, even if I was attracted to him in that way. Am I paranoid for seeing red flags with this guy?-- Edited by Damaris at 16:29, 2006-04-29
I honestly gon't think this guy is for you D. He has too much going on & is possibly just looking for a savor rather than a girlfriend.
Kimchee is the answer to everyone's problems! It is the life force, the uncompromising Id, the dish at the end of the cold bar at the Asian buffet that keeps the common thread of mankind from unraveling at the seams!! WE MUST HAVE MORE KIMCHEE!!!
And you know what ? He had some CONDOMS with him lol ...but I did not let him using his ...we used mine hahahahahaha just in case !
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Sorry ...please explain lol
