please note: none of this is in reference to Nic's life or anything like that not at all. i just thought that the article was interesting its from a man's point of view it was written by a guy. the link to it is http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=7756&TrackingID=516311&BannerID=544657&menuid=6>1=10185